Theres a video of Bob performing at Maple leaf Gardens in '98, singing "I'm Not Supposed To Care" on Youtube right now. If I wasn't so daft, I would put a link here!! But it's under the title "i wish you good spaces". Nice performance!
here it is: (char-moderator) I think it's the same one as above that is noted as being in 1998 as well in anaheim,CA. - altho he was in Toronto on october 29,1998.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RpSRBbMTNbU