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If you could read my mind in Lightfoot’s own words
Tuesday June 24 2008 - 8:24AM
Gordon Lightfoot has been on the road performing these past few months. Perhaps as a result of feeling vulnerable due to the loss of his longtime manager Barry Harvey, and mourning the more recent loss of his long-time guitarist and melodic counterpart Red Shea, Lightfoot has become increasingly open and downright chatty with reporters like never before. Much of what he’s asked and says has been asked and said before, but every once in awhile Lightfoot connects with a question, takes the time with an enquiring mind, and reaches within to shed a little light on his creative soul.
This happened recently in Pennsylvania when Dennis Fulton at CentreDaily.com asked about the songwriting process. Below, in part, is what Lightfoot told Fulton.
“I don’t think most people understand this, but there is a price involved in writing. It affects your personal life, it affects your marriages. When you get bound in it the way I was, like when you are under contract, you find yourself in a state of isolation. There is an emotional price and all sorts of sacrifice that goes into it. Are you ready to accept the responsibility? I’ve acquired six children along the way. You’ve got to be doing it seriously well to support what I’ve got going here.
” The isolation is what affects relationships and personal life. If you are not careful, it eats up so much time. When you get into it, you lose touch with the people around you. You lose touch with your children; you lose touch with your wife and relatives. When I was under contract, making a lot of records and writing a lot of songs, I can remember one time when I hardly talked to anybody for a whole year.
“Songwriting has ruined many a marriage. I’ve talked to a lot of songwriters — the spouse hates to see their partner closeted away in that manner. I’ve found that there is a certain kind of resentment among wives when you have to do that — being under contract and signed to a record label. It ruined two or three marriages for me. You can be a successful songwriter and make lots of money, but it won’t be a free trip.”