I'm happy to see this thread revived.
Speaking as a "child of the sixties/seventies" who was/is very much into the woman's movement, I can honestly say that I've never been offended by this song.
I hear it as a song of someone who assumes a certain "self protective" arrogance. Someone who loves so deeply, has been hurt and puts on a defensive/offensive posture or shell to shield himself from more hurt.
I don't take his lyrics literally - I believe they leave us all with a lot of latitude to take away from them what we wish.
I also like the view that was expressed earlier in this thread that he may be making himself out to be a worse cad than he is in order to make it easier for the other person in the relationship to just get on with their life instead of pining over him.
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~ ~ ~Picking up the pieces of my sweet shattered dreamI wonder how the old folks are tonightHer name was Ann and I'll be damned if I recall her face She left me not knowing what to do ~ ~ ~
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