[timetraveler]

When it comes to mums, mine can be a heifer sometimes, but when put up against all of the others that I've had to compare her with, I don't think that I'd trade her for all the tea in China, especially after having kept a truly terrible secret to myself for many decades, and when I finally told her about 10 years ago, the only reason that she fussed at me was because I DID'NT tell her. She told me that if I had told her way back when, she would've taken my word over the other persons. It makes me wonder how things would've been if I hadn't kept the secret. It took me decades, literally, to find that I could trust her, and thank God I know that I still can to this day.