I agree. Forget about the chic. The first time a pretty girl smiles at you, you'll forget all about your ex and Skippy the boyfriend.
"...but I have an awful feeling I'm going to half to fight either for her, over her, or against her."
Two problems with this statement DMD. First, you are once again using the word "half" when you mean have.

Secondly, you said that you may have to "fight against her". Never fight a woman. Trust me, they simply are not worth the headache. My generation of women, and probably more so your generation, are mostly all about money and greed. The majority of women are snakes in the grass looking for their next victim. Always look out for #1.