Maya - My Baby GrandGirl - and The Struggle
Hey Folks,
While in Toronto [where I still am] my son Joshua's wife [Heather] gave birth to a baby girl - Maya, by first name. Her birth was an ordeal beyond what I could imagine. But, now - all is well. Those of you also in Toronto for the Massey Hall shows know of her birth -but not of The Struggle. Please forgive my holding up The Brave Face leading to 'beaucous' jabbering on my part. These events, also, are why I didn't show up for various of the gatherings in Toronto . . . I was at-station by the phone and laptop . . . and on my knees in prayer. The following e-mail is written by my boy Josh to explain the circumstances. Rejoice, Rez ***************** Our daughter Maya was born last Fri. Nov 20th at 6:04a.m., weighing 7lbs 12oz and measuring 20 in. long. There were complications with the birth and the tumultuous, exhausting, last five days have left us little time to communicate except with close family, but we are extremely happy to report that she has recovered wonderfully and all reports are that she will have little to no lasting injury. We can’t yet find the words to convey the full experience, but wanted to at least give an update and provide the general story. Sometime during late labor Maya was deprived of oxygen. At birth her heart was beating but she was unresponsive and unable to breath. She was rushed to the resuscitation table where she pinked up when bagged, but remained utterly limp and non-responsive. A breathing tube was put in and she took her first breath after about 20 minutes. Her first, feeble cry was at 30 minutes just before being taken to the Special Care Nursery. Her lab reports indicated the damage was potentially significant enough to warrant transfer to Swedish to consider a relatively new procedure called a “cool cap”, where the brain is cooled in an effort to reduce injury from oxygen deprivation. So four hours after Maya’s birth Heather was recovering at Group Health and Josh was at Swedish with Maya in the NICU. At 6 hours we learned that a cool cap would not be done (a good sign) but that the progress in the next 24, 48, 72 hours would provide more clues about the long term effects, both on her brain and the other internal organs that had suffered injury. Each day brought incremental but positive news: reducing and eventually removing the breathing support; holding her for the first time; improving lab reports and physical assessments; her first feeding; MRI results that showed no signs of brain damage; the doctor saying that no test were showing signs of long term damage to her brain or other organs; her first breastfeeding; removing her IV. She should move out of the NICU in the next day to a less acute level of care and eventually home, though no date has been projected. An experience like this is difficult to wrap your head around. At times we felt robbed and ill-fated, but Maya’s amazing recovery and seeing the other children in the NICU has also left us feeling very fortunate. The outpouring of love and support has also made us feel incredibly fortunate, and we believe it had a huge effect on Maya’s recovery and our ability to cope. Maya is a beautiful, incredibility strong little girl, and it is clear that she is going to grow up with a network of family and friends enveloping her with love, just as we have been. That’s a wonderful thing and we know what we will be thankful for the Thanksgiving. The list is long. Thanks to everyone and take care, Josh and Heather http://i147.photobucket.com/albums/r...g-5DaysOld.jpg |
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Rez,
The news sounds encouraging. Our Thoughts and prayers are with Maya and the family Kevin |
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Happy to hear Maya has arrived and is doing well after!
keep us posted.. congrats grandpa! |
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Congratulations on the birth of your new granddaughter. I hope she continues to improve and is home from the hospital very soon!
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Rez,
Congratulations on the birth of your granddaugter! You and your family will continue in my prayers... |
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Thanks Big for your Kind Hearts,
I spoke w/ my boy Joshua last night. As of then, they expect to come home *as a family* be week's end. As soon as I arrive back in Southern California tomorrow night, I'll book on up to Seattle . . . *First Hug* time, ya' know. The Hospital Doctors will continue close monitoring, but 'The Thriving' continues - and strong! The "Out of the Woods" sun shines more and more brightly . . . . "Then pealed the bells more loud and deep God is not dead . . . nor does He sleep" Bless Your Hearts, Rez |
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Wonderful news Rex.
The family bond is a woven from a strong fabric and it's very prevalent here in our group and news of this nature strengthens that bond. Your many more joyous moments are on their way. Cherish every moment that is yours. Ron J. |
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Spoke with my boy Joshua yesterday evening. He was rocking Maya
Maya is "Thriving" and gaining appropriate weight. It's requiring a combination of breast and breast-pumped bottle feeding to achieve the necessary nutrition. Glory! It's working! Maya's physical strength is still on very much very much weak, hence the switch out between bottle and breast. It's sort of a pre-weening . . . uh . . . weening. The expectation is for Maya to gain strength enough to completely segue to the breast for food. Folks . . . I heard Maya cry [albeit, over the phone] for the first time yesterday. In that instant, she became for than a photograph; more than head-knowledge - she became *Maya,* not just 'the baby' What I've known all along in my head, moved into my heart. Really, into my gut - 'cause that's where we humans actually "feel" May I please humble ask your continued *Hope* [expressed as is most comfortable to you] toward Maya and her parents - and even me. These things are Needful . . . beyond what tongue can tell Blessings and Thanksgiving, Rez |
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What a cutie! I'm so glad she's continuing to do well.
Meanings for Maya: "Maya is mostly taken in English-speaking countries as a variant of the mythological name Maia, usage influenced by the common English word and name "May". It is also the Spanish form of the name, and a common pet form of Amalia. The name occurs in Japanese as well, with various combinations of meaning, such as for example truth and everlasting. It is another name for the Basque goddess Mari. "Maya;" means "illusion" or "enchantment" in Sanskrit and Pāli (from ma; "not" and ya; "this") In Hinduism, is a term describing many things. Maya is the phenomenal world of separate objects and people, which creates for some the illusion that it is the only reality. In Hindu mythology, Maya is the name of the goddess Devi, the consort of Shiva. In Buddhist myth, Queen Maya was the birth mother of the historical Buddha. It is also used on males. Maya is also a modern Hebrew name, probably also a variant of Greek Maia, but maybe related to Maayan (spring) and to the Aramaic word for “water”." I like "enchantment" - I'm sure she'll be enchanting for you and yours, Rez. The most unusual baby name we have in our family is my cousin's daughter who was named Sungiva. And for everyone who's wondering, the name is pronounced Soon-gheev-ah, accent on the 'gheev'. It's the original Anglo-Saxon version of Sunniva. The name means "sun-giving". Her middle name is Marie and her grandparents call her Sunny. I'm not sure if the choice was her mother Angelika's or my cousin Simon's, or both. |
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Thanks Annie for the Background Info on *Maya*
I've copied your descriptive to Maya [so she can inform her parents, Joshua & Heather] All continues well. I'll visit in mid-January. Gramps gets in the back of the line, ya know . . . . This morning's e-mails brought Pure Joy: *Maya - as She Grows* . . . in White Blanket - Ready for Her Close-Up http://i147.photobucket.com/albums/r...20091204_s.jpg . . . in Costume - Where the Wild Things Are http://i147.photobucket.com/albums/r...e_20091201.jpg . . . sleeping with Dad - Oh, the Remembers http://i147.photobucket.com/albums/r...ngwithDad2.jpg . . . Aunt Miyuki and Uncle Zack - My youngest son and his wife http://i147.photobucket.com/albums/r...i_20091201.jpg My Lord, what a Morning . . . ! Rez PS: Any help on to how to click a foto to enlarge it would be welcome |
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Bless Your Heart, Char . . .
Ya' gotta teach me that trick! Rez |
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All together now:
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Maya is beautiful :biggrin:!!! My hopes and prayers for Maya and family.
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My goodness, Rex, she is absolutely beautiful!! I wish you all a future full of wonderful things.
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This is one Christmas gift that can't beat!
She's absolutely beautiful, Rez! At the risk of redundancy, congratulations! (and yes, you and yours will continue in my prayers) |
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Wonderful news, beautiful baby. Peace Be With You brother! Keep us posted. And have a Merry Christmas!
Bill :) |
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wonderful Rez-Rex, congratulations and enjoy all that lies ahead
the birth topic never squeezed into our brief but insight packed musical chats at the pub however an air of contentment and an enhanced glow was coming from you, this could explain it all the best to the whole lot of ya jim |
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